IT'S ALL ABOUT THE KIDS

 

In America, children often face the harsh reality of violence in their lives. This unfortunate truth has seeped into our culture through media, music, video games, and films. It would be great to say that children can find a safe haven in their own homes, but that's not the case. Experts estimate that around 10 million children are exposed to domestic violence each year. Shockingly, more than half of the school-aged children living in domestic violence shelters struggle with issues like posttraumatic stress disorder, behavior problems, anxiety, and learning difficulties. If we don't provide healing and support for them, these kids are at a much higher risk for issues like delinquency, substance abuse, dropping out of school, and facing challenges in their own relationships.

 

According to studies, 53% to 70% of male batterers also frequently abuse their children (Struas & Gelles, 1990). 

 

When a court issues a Restraining Order after finding evidence of domestic violence, the next focus often shifts quickly to child custody matters. Unfortunately, this seriously disregards what's truly best for the child. After a separation, exchanges of custody and visitation can reignite ongoing violence and tension, further exposing children to domestic violence and putting the survivor at risk.

 

Often, batterers continue to harm others. If they have custody or visitation, children may witness domestic violence against a new partner. Our kids are being left vulnerable to further abuse, manipulation, and distress.

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Georgia Code § 19-9-3 pertains to visitation rights and custody of children in cases of divorce or separation. The statute emphasizes the importance of the child's welfare and aims to provide a balanced approach to custody decisions. 

 

In cases where domestic violence is involved, the code takes special considerations to protect the child's and victim parent's safety. It allows for the possibility of supervised visitation or other protective measures when there's evidence of domestic violence, ensuring that the needs and safety of the child are prioritized. This provision aims to create a supportive environment for children while recognizing the seriousness of domestic violence and its potential impact on custody arrangements. 

 

It's crucial to understand that the court will evaluate each case individually, focusing on what is in the child's best interest while also considering the safety of all parties involved.

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The courts are failing our children.

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Shiloh Operations will actively advocate this law, and we ask that you keep these children and this situation in your prayers.

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